Sunday, November 29, 2015

time is a thief. we're 2 days from december & swimming in projects between holiday prep & getting ready to bring our baby into the world- 9 weeks to go & SO much to get done!

2 weeks ago, a horrific act of terrorism took place in paris. we've been thinking about the victims & their families, and making a conscious effort to appreciate the moment & the gift of life. 


our sweet, snuggly, sassy eloise turned 18 months! she keeps me on my toes & fills my heart with so much love. these days, every other word that comes out of her mouth is either "mommy!" or "nurse!" she's very much in a mommy stage & would be content spending her days hanging on my chest. i think it has to do with her getting more teeth, but either way, i've become a champion re-director throughout the day & we continue to nurse before nap & bed :)


lucy's been working hard on independently writing her name! her L's & U's are spot on & she's super close to consistently writing her C's & Y's! next up, she wants to learn "lucille" :) her favorite game to play right now is "waitress" & she spends hours each week taking our orders on the magna-doodle. "mommy, what would you like today?"


she's been extra cuddly these days- but first she always says that she has to get "sti-choo-ated" [situated] :) she's still attached to her ariel babydoll & i haven't yet had an opportunity to sneak her away long enough to throw her in the washing machine...


she gave me the gift of an afternoon cuddle-snooze one day last week :) before she goes to bed each night, she wants me to reassure her that i'll whip her up some "peanut butter toast with strawberry honey & peanut butter" when she wakes up in the morning. i'm so in love with her innocence & the small desires of her little heart. 


i had a great 29th birthday on the 21st. it started with "watch week" at lucy's dance class- i LOVE seeing her determination & how much fun she has!







gmom brought lucy pink roses- bravo!


the only family member always willing to selfie with me :)


jon took me to dinner on the plaza [classic cup- my favorite!] & a show at crown center [urinetown] that night, while meme stayed in with the girls for dinner & bedtime. it was the first time anyone other than jon or i have done bedtime with eloise! she was a champ :) jon's the best with birthdays- he made me feel so extra special from sun up to sun down, between flowers, gifts, coffee & extra love. so thankful he's mine!

we started decorating for christmas last sunday... a project that ended up lasting 5 whole days. between all of the other projects we're in the middle of, a 3 & 1 year old & a big ole belly- slow-goin' is the name of the game. i'd say our priorities are in line though- the roasterie's holiday blend, that i wait for year round, was in the pantry & ready to be ground for decking the halls :) the decaf does not disappoint this year!


monday morning, we joined the jansen boys at prairiefire museum, followed by lunch at my favorite mom-spot, aka chick-fil-a :)








play fun during lucy's gymnastics class-


my turkeys ready for thanksgiving day! jon's aunts, uncles & cousins came into kansas city for the holiday, and we had a fabulous 3 days with them, starting with thanksgiving day & evening at gmom's & gdad's :) my favorite part of the day was when lucy woke up from her nap [necessary with all of the holiday excitement!] & ran downstairs holding her shoes & bow, which she'd noticed jon had placed at the foot of the bed. it was just so telling of her personality- meticulous & always prepared. i wonder wbere she gets it... :)



in the midst of these past few days, we managed to finish our holiday decor- fa la la la la la la la la! & hosted everyone friday night for pizzas & wine that i gazed longingly at :)

i don't want to forget how special decorating the tree with lucy was this year! jon & i attempted multiple times throughout the week to get the ornaments on, but something of some sort kept coming up. when we finally planned to plow through & trim the tree, eloise puked all over her crib. she had never thrown up before! [thankfully the puking didn't continue past that night & she's in good health again] once we bathed her & got her peacefully sleeping, we let lucy stay awake for the tree & she was seriously in heaven. she was so excited & so proud to put each ornament that she discovered in just the right spot. she'd talk about each ornament, place it on the tree [her spot of choice was always looping the ornament hook around a tree light] then make a comment like, "now THAT looks perfect!" she was completely giddy & it was one of the sweetest moments i've had- true christmas magic happening right in front of me <3


this year, we replaced the girls' bedroom lamps with their own pink & white christmas trees. they are so proud of their personal trees!





eloise is beyond intrigued by the ornaments on the tree. she walks up & says "WOW!" ...we're working on her impulse control & she's gotten pretty darn good with a mere wave at the ornaments & saying "hiiii!" rather than yanking them off the branches :)


on another note- i can't leave the girls in the basement unsupervised anymore without this happening. thankfully, lucy's a great tattle-teller & hollers up to me if eloise goes anywhere near the bunk ladder :)


santa's elves-



holiday family fun-


lucy with davis- jon's cousin, who was also a groomsmen in our wedding. lucy's completely in love with davis' younger brother, zack, who literally spent hours playing with her over the past few days- dress-up, kitchen, hide & seek, ring around the rosie... she's currently in zack-withdrawal. 


my mom graciously watched the girls this morning, and jon & i went on an impromptu lunch & coffee date. both girls are sound asleep now, so today is actually turning into an entire date-day :) such a rare, appreciated treat!


we're 31 weeks tomorrow! a proud biggest sister lucy has continued to announce the baby's name to the world, so i think i can take the liberty of referring to her by name on the family blog as well :) beatrice "betsy" claire is taking up more & more space in my ribs. she's nestled pretty cozy in there :) we chose the name beatrice, as it's from the 1920's right alongside lucille & eloise. all 3 of our girls' names end with an "e" & grandmother-chic is our favorite naming style :) & we feel like claire is a simple classic just like jane & amy- the big girls' middle names. betsy baby, we're waiting for you! 


& speaking of, i'm off to try & figure out a seated position that doesn't involve feeling like my back might snap at any minute. i definitely blocked this memory from previous pregnancies :)

we have a busy week ahead with dental appointments for the girls [fingers crossed for eloise...], eloise's 18 month check-up & a festive weekend! santa will be at jon's office friday afternoon & we'll go see the plaza lights afterwards for dinner. on saturday, lucy has a sugar plum cookie party at her dance studio. our neighborhood holiday horse-drawn hayride is saturday evening & sunday is our big date with meme to see the nutcracker at the kauffman center downtown! lucy has been eyeing her red sparkly christmas dress & watching barbie nutcracker + reading the nutcracker library book in preparation :) eloise & daddy are excited for a daddy/daughter date- in the midst of the furniture painting project for lu's new room :)

happiest of holidays! enjoying the hustle & the bustle, and so grateful for all of my blessings. 

-ivy




Sunday, November 15, 2015

my wild turkey-



one of my very favorite things as a mom is seeing lucy's weekly progress in gymnastics. gymnastics is her favorite activity these days :)






eloise enjoyed a rare chance to run around the gym this past week [click for video:)]-


grapes & cheese picnic [gotta start 'em young!]


poor charlie pulled a muscle in his back this past wednesday, as i've been obsessively exercising him over the last few weeks. jon & i noticed that he was getting a bit thick around the middle [thanks to half of eloise's meals landing on the floor...] but the silver lining, i was pretty pleased his weight was back on target when jon took him in to get some puppy pain meds :)


lucy & i made a "thankful turkey" & she noted that she's thankful for both her sisters, her daddy, both her grandmas, herself & her dollies. no love for mama! :)


friday at union station with my little girlfriends-



my sweet lu waiting in line for the giant hamster wheel [an example of something that i never thought i would LOVE witnessing- my child waiting patiently for her turn. when it's your own kid, it's just magic!]




i love how eloise jumps right in with the big kids. fearless!








saturday morning, eloise had a date at meme's while jon worked on painting lucy's new room & i took lu to dance- she loves all the christmas knick knacks meme has out for the holidays-


& during eloise's nap saturday afternoon, lucy & i went to a fairytale princess party at the library. she made a tiara, magic wand, dragon mask, built a castle, drank "elsa blue punch" & ate "olaf frozen ice cream"- she loved it! it is such a gift to get to do these fun things with her :)



little turkeys before church today-





& this has actually been a bit of a dramatic week for me. i ended up switching OB's after a series of events that i didn't feel comfortable with. i absolutely LOVE my new doctor [she's the mom of one of my former students], but the hassle of switching doctors, let alone practices, at 28 weeks pregnant was pretty overwhelming. the paperwork, phone calls, waiting time, etc. thankfully my new doc was able to squeeze me in at the end of the week & i got a little sneak peek of our littlest one! such a treat! she's in the 47th percentile, head down, healthy & i got to see her try & suck her thumb :) i can hardly believe i'll be 29 weeks tomorrow- the same week that i turn 29. it'll be a lucky year for sure! lucy said to me at least twice this week, "mommy! you're getting bigger!"


lucy & eloise are as sweet as ever. lucy still speaks for the 2 of them, ["excuse us, mommy"] & both of them spend their days singing. eloise alternates between the ABC's & "brown bear" :) they both have sweet tooths [sweet teeth?] & eloise loves popsicle sticks after a popsicle's been eaten about as much as a pig loves mud :)

looking forward to this last week before thanksgiving. jon's taking me out for my birthday saturday night & next week is shortened, so we'll start pulling out christmas then [always a worth-it chore!] we're in the midst of the room switch-over- jon finished painting today [yay!], picked out all of of the new bathroom finishes & hardware, and the next step is refinishing furniture. we looked & looked, but just couldn't find a bedroom set we loved [or we loved a couple pieces, but it didn't come as the bunk-bed set we were hoping for]. so we've ended up keeping the guest room furniture we have & jon's going to refinish it with white chalk paint. it'll look great- it's just a huge project! we still may have kids share rooms at some point in the future, but this is best for now. baby steps...

happy week to you!

-ivy